I'm not blaming anyone, so no apologies please!
So, what made my day so bad...
- I was told at work that my boss basically has no faith in me.
- Also at work, I was told I smelled "pukey... like a cigar" because of my COCONUT lotion.
- I forgot my umbrella when Mike and I went out to run errands.
- I was supposed to pick Jaden up at 4:30 so she could go home and play then go to dinner with Mike and me before spending the night at Karen's. She had a hard time napping at Bisque It so Mike went and got her and took her to his mom's to nap. I asked Karen to call me when she either woke up (if they weren't going to the baseball game) or when they got home from the game so I could see her. Well, she woke up at 4:30 but I didn't get a call until a little before 7:00 so I basically didn't get to see Jaden yesterday. I really, REALLY hate when I have days like that.
- Mike went to get his hair cut at 3:30ish and so I expected him to basically be right behind me when I got home. I had things I needed to do like clean vegetables and go to the post office but figured RIGHT when I got started, he'd get home and we'd need to leave. So, I waited until 6:00 before I finally texted him and asked if he was ever coming home. In all honesty, I thought maybe I was supposed to meet him somewhere and I forgot. Well, he immediately called me and was NOT HAPPY because there were 9 people in front of him at the barber AND he had to detour twice on the way home because of two different wrecks. When he gets home and I try to tell him about the phone call I had earlier in the day with the computer guy (we are getting ours fixed) he just argued with me (even though I admittedly know nothing when it comes to fixing computers). I then asked him what time the post office closed and that started a whole new argument about how he thought we were just going two places and I never told him I needed to go to the post office... I think he was having a bad day too. We ran our errands all while arguing in the car because I misunderstood what he was talking about and he HATES to explain himself more than once (if I didn't get it the first time, I must not have been listening).
- I thought to myself, "at least I look cute today!" only to be told MULTIPLE times I looked "very pregnant today." In other words, "you really shouldn't wear white while you're pregnant." In my defense, I have only a few maternity shirts that I don't overheat in. I will most likely wear the same shirts week to week... get over it. Also, I'm due in less that 3 months! I'M FREAKING SHOWING! DUH! It's not like I'm some 15 year old girl that needs to hide my growing tummy so not to get stares from disapproving adults. I'm a married 27 year old with her PLANNED second child growing inside of her! Ugh... I really don't like pregnancy comments on my size...
- We went to dinner and had the world's most incompetent server. At this point it didn't even matter that my food kind of sucked...
- I go and spend my whole hour of the day with Jaden (if that).
- We get home and argue some more about the computer.
- I get ready for bed and realize I sent MY toothbrush with Jaden instead of hers.
- We go to bed and Mike asks me what I want on the TV. I said I didn't care (because I didn't care) and then he gets annoyed because I closed my eyes (imagine that!!) and why did he put it on Conan if I was going to sleep (maybe because I said I DIDN'T CARE)? So he changes the channel to something he wants, puts the sleep timer on to go off after MIDNIGHT (trust me, I kept my mouth shut on that one) and immediately fell asleep. I never opened my eyes because I knew the tears would come out if I did and once I started, I didn't know if I would stop. Besides, Mike hates when I cry... I really didn't want another argument to start.
Hopefully today will be better... I dodged a glob of grape jelly falling from my PB&J this morning. Instead of landing on my khaki shorts, it went to my khaki-colored seat in my car... I really can't forget to clean that when I get home!!
Sorry for the negative blog... I normally have good days! Not yesterday... oh, and in case you are wondering, I'm wearing a tummy-hiding black shirt today.
awww Im sorry love!!! I know days like this... and youre pregnant, you can wear what you want!!!!!! hugs xxxooo
ReplyDeleteYeah. That's a totally sucky day. Here's hoping today is better! xoxo
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