My Life List is a list of things I would like to accomplish in my lifetime, not a list of things I want to do before I die. You may think of them as the same thing, but they are not. Whereas a Bucket List focuses on death, a Life List is all about living!
Some dreams on my list are major and others are small. I cross off things on my list when I feel like I have fully accomplished them. I don't set out to do these things for the sole purpose of crossing them off my list. I do what feels right, when the time is right.
My Life List first originated after 9/11. I saw an episode of Oprah with a mother of a girl that was killed in the attacks of 9/11. This mother was talking about going through her daughter's room and personal belongings after she was killed. In doing so, she found her daughter's Life List. That episode was very inspiring to me. That day, I started my Life List.
I'm an organizational control freak so I have a few rules about my Life List! There will always be 50 goals on my list. I can change them whenever I want but once an item has been crossed off, there is no changing it!
So, without further ado, I present my Life List:
- Write and publish a book
- Learn a song on the guitar
- Put my foot in each ocean
- Visit Ground Zero
- Talk with a homeless person
Plan an event from start to finishAugust 28, 2010Start my own businessMeet a famous personAugust 4, 2012 - Train- Build something useful out of wood
- Visit each of the 50 states
- Host a dinner party
- Bike/blade the River Greenway
Learn golfTrain and run in a raceSeptember 24, 2011 - 4 mile Fort 4 Fitness- Anonymously pay for someone else's meal at a restaurant
- Take my family on a vacation to Disney World
Learn to knit or crochetCollect all Statehood QuartersLearn to sew- Take a ballroom dance class
- Take a line dancing class
- Swim with dolphins
Meet a blog friend in real lifeI've met Abbey, Tia (here), Biz (here), and Angela!- Visit the Oval Office
- Visit Niagara Falls
Attend a Wine Tasting at a wineryVisit the Grand CanyonSeptember 14, 2010Learn to bake- Bungee Jump
Participate in a Polar Bear PlungeJanuary 1, 2011- Be in NY on New Year's Eve
Be in the front row at a concertAugust 4, 2012 - TrainFind my “forever house”- Shop at the Mall of America
Place a bet in VegasSeptember 12-17, 2010- Take a Cake Decorating class
- Be 100% free of debt
- Deliver gifts to a hospital on Christmas Eve
- Attend a taping of a talk show
- Participate in the Chalk Walk
- Learn Beyonce's Single Ladies dance
- Learn to play the piano
- Apply/Audition for a reality show
- Live the Mardi Gras experience
- Give away free hugs
Be a radio DJ for a day- Organize my life
Do something good enough to make the news!VolunteerMarry my soul mate and have two beautiful children